Judgement, condemnation, unforgiveness and the measure of are the four areas that harden my heart and stop me being generous. Giving is a heart issue. We need to learn to give to God, not to give to man when we give, as it allows us to let it go. A giving heart is not a suggestion from God- it is a commandment. We must deal with our selfish, grieving heart, and develop a generous and grateful heart.
Matt 7:1-2, Matt 6:21, Luke 6:31-36, Luke 6:37-38, Deut 15:7-15